forward direct instead of over tailscale

hosts/nyx/include/proxy.nix

@@ -1,7 +1,10 @@
 { config, pkgs, ...}: {
   services.nginx.virtualHosts."phantomthieves.net" = {
     locations."/" = {
-      proxyPass = "http://necronomicon.tempest.local:4000";
+      proxyPass = "https://melete.tempest.dev/";
+      extraConfig = ''
+        proxy_set_header Host $host;
+      '';
       proxyWebsockets = true;
     };
     forceSSL = true;
@@ -9,7 +12,12 @@
   };
 
   services.nginx.virtualHosts."forum.phantomthieves.net" = {
-    locations."/" = { proxyPass = "http://melete.tempest.local:8999"; };
+    locations."/" = {
+      proxyPass = "https://melete.tempest.dev/";
+      extraConfig = ''
+        proxy_set_header Host $host;
+      '';
+    };
     forceSSL = true;
     enableACME = true;
   };